16 and still a damn insomniac
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Do you still listen to chart music?
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Music, albums, singles, gigs, bands, artists and anything else musical you can think of.
2 Hours Ago: 4th October 2011 00:56 Re: Do you still listen to chart music? Charts music isn't great at all. I dislike it, it's very generic and monotonous.... Very mainstream/commercial, only there for the money. Some artists even admit that in interviews.
2 Hours Ago: 4th October 2011 01:06 Re: Do you still listen to chart music? Not really, although I loved most of it as a kid. But I guess when you're small your tastes are less specific and you probably just haven't been exposed to that many different styles/genres yet.
To be honest I find myself pretty unaware of what's even in them at all these days, since I barely use the TV/radio and actively seek out the music I prefer online.
3rd year male and still a virgin, not by choice. Clearly.
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1 Hour Ago: 4th October 2011 01:43 
3rd year male and still a virgin, not by choice. Clearly. Profile5'11 male
3rd year at uni
20 years of age
Past Sexual Experience
None
Past relationship
1,which was two years ago. Was told that "I had sex on the brain and appeared sexually frustarted." Conclusion- 3 month relationship with no sex. Some relationship 
Number and outcome of approaches
Been clubbing but get rejected- A LOT.
Mates in summer suggested we chat up girls off the street. Refused to do it as let's be honest it's suicide.
Problem
Starting uni again and just don't understand why everyone seems to be pairing up but me. Be that in a club or outside a club.Both of my housemates have relationships and many of my "lads" make it sound so easy.
Failed solutions
Got involved in sports to a decent level
Got involved in Journalism
Went out to parties/clubs couple a times a month
This seemed to only encourage thinking about compatibility based on CV-like points; where girls were attracted to the guys who had the highest score: most friends, highest grades; best body etc.
My questions
Why am I so undesirable?
Are views so totally off the mark?
I've tried manning up and trying to be goal driven but that doesn't stop urges. Besides trying not to get laid doesn't seem all that manly to me...
1 Hour Ago: 4th October 2011 01:46 Re: 3rd year male and still a virgin, not by choice. Clearly. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. There are many men who didn't loose their virginity in their early twenties. The whole sex thing is not a race. TAKE IT FROM ME... you want your first time to be with someone special. Having sex for the first time can make you very nervous if you aren't with the right girl. II was so nervous when I first had sex, but my girlfriend understood and the experience was great because we helped each other. wait it out. Don't have sex with some crazy club slut
You need new mates as well and you need to go to new places. It sounds like they watch too much Inbetweeners because you are obviously going to all the wrong places!!! You WILL NOT find a decent girl in a club!!! Expand your social horizons and go to places you have never been before. Join societies, join sports clubs, try jazz bars, etc.
Oh, and you are manly enough. Screw what all the other bellends on here say to stroke their own ego. You have a penis so you are a man. I think it's more of a confidence issue. Seek councelling if it's an issue. You probably have a good councelling service in your uni. Stop looking at everyone else and concentrate on you because you are an amazing person.
Improve your mental health, get exercise, concentrate on your studies, try new things and the girls will come to you.
Last edited by jblackmoustache; 1 Hour Ago at 01:56. 1 Hour Ago: 4th October 2011 02:04 Re: 3rd year male and still a virgin, not by choice. Clearly. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. There are many men who didn't loose their virginity in their early twenties. The whole sex thing is not a race. TAKE IT FROM ME... you want your first time to be with someone special. Having sex for the first time can make you very nervous if you aren't with the right girl. II was so nervous when I first had sex, but my girlfriend understood and the experience was great because we helped each other. wait it out. Don't have sex with some crazy club slut
You need new mates as well and you need to go to new places. It sounds like they watch too much Inbetweeners because you are obviously going to all the wrong places!!! You WILL NOT find a decent girl in a club!!! Expand your social horizons and go to places you have never been before. Join societies, join sports clubs, try jazz bars, etc.
Oh, and you are manly enough. Screw what all the other bellends on here say to stroke their own ego. You have a penis so you are a man. I think it's more of a confidence issue. Seek councelling if it's an issue. You probably have a good councelling service in your uni. Stop looking at everyone else and concentrate on you because you are an amazing person.
Improve your mental health, get exercise, concentrate on your studies, try new things and the girls will come to you.
It probably is a confidence issue.Also this need to achieve in order to get a GF is warped.
help! can i still get a 2.1??
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Can i still get a 2.1?
Hi guys im a bit worried and looking for some help!
im just wondering if i could possibly still get a 2.1 degree my second year results aren't great!
i got 61-55-51-50-47-40! aber employs the cascade system, ie top 80 credit modules are given a weight of 3, my worst 40 credit third year marks are added to my best 40 credit second year modules are added and given a weight of 2 and the rest of my 80 credits are given a weight of one i think it then might be divided by 48 but im not sure 
plz can anyone tell me if its still possible to get a 2.1 and if so what would i need to achieve in my upcoming modules to gain that 2.1??
Im getting really stressed about this so any help would be truly appreciated!!
can you come still, Freshers fair, if u on Agap year?
What to do? Is it still possible to KCL?
53 Minutes ago: 20 August 2011 01: 24 Re: what to do? KCL is still a way? They can still make A * AA, especially with a few repetitions in the B (they will accept, but repeat no need a year), and at the end of the day, KCL is not everything.Results and you can get a strong personal statement and good LNAT still an offer.
What are the other types in? I wonder whether you can delete the c, and focus only on the 3 A2s with the aim for an A * in English lit and the b one improve a.
Stoned last night got still can not feel mouth properly.
Weed you sure that it was you smoked?
