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For questions and discussions relating to all aspects and kinds of relationships, from love and dating to friends, family and work. Threads about sexuality also belong here. 1 Hour Ago: 27th October 2011 02:22   I'm terrible with girls, but I like someone. Help me please! So, I've just turned 19 and am in my first year of university. The truth is that I'm terrible with girls. In fact I've only ever kissed 2 girls! Basically I see all these people at uni who get girlfriends, or manage to get girls at a club or a bar and I don't understand how they do it! I'm not an ugly guy, nor am I shy or boring. I'm actually quite outgoing but I find it incredibly hard to speak to girls if I ever want it to lead somewhere. So I cannot go up to someone random in a club or bar and just introduce myself. I've even tried drinking to see if it will help me be more confident but it does not work. I live in a flat with other first years and all of them have a relationship and often they will talk about them and experiences etc and I feel very down and left out because I cannot join in. So I would just like to know firstly for any suggestions as to how to overcome this fear?

Secondly, there is a girl on my course who I have taken a bit of a shine too. However, I don't have a clue how I could possible take things further. We have only ever spoken briefly and it was about the work and I never get to socialise at all with people on my course as we go in, do a 2 hour seminar and then we all leave. So there is not really time for me to even strike up a casual conversation with her. I managed to sit next to her in the last seminar and I found out where she is from and a tiny bit more - just general stuff in a 5 minute gap we had, but wasn't anything great. I don't even know if she's got a boyfriend. Any suggestions on what to do? Please don't suggest something like, as her for coffee as it would seem weird as we barely know each other and also I couldn't possible do it because of my fear.

Sorry for this essay, it's just a problem I feel I am the only one with and need some advice. Thanks in advance!

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